My best friend spends all day every day with her boyfriend and we don’t kick it together anymore. She doesn’t even answer my phone calls because she’s talking to him. What should I do about this situation?
-Tori
Dear Tori,
First, put yourself in her shoes so that you can understand that Its very hard to balance a friendship and a relationship because sometimes it forces you to have to choose between the two most important people in your life. Someone is going to have less time with her, but you do deserve some time with her.
I suggest you talk to your friend about this situation. Remind her who has been there from the beginning. Let her know that you feel neglected and feel like you come second to her boyfriend.
Tell her what she’s doing to you and how it is making you feel. Don’t make her feel too bad but just let her know that you miss spending time with her.
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